Tarot · Minor Arcana · Cups

Five of Cups

  • grief
  • regret
  • sorrow
  • comfort

Key facts

Arcana
Minor Arcana
Suit
Cups
Number
5
Numerology
5 (The Catalyst: instability, resistance, confrontation)
Keywords
grief, regret, sorrow, comfort

Five of Cups upright

The Five of Cups is spilled cups we weep over, our back turned to the ones still standing. A loss has gripped your heart, and it’s right to let it exist, without rushing it. Grief has its place; it doesn’t ask to be erased, only to be heard. When you’re ready, turn gently around, there’s still life behind you.

Five of Cups reversed

Reversed, the Five of Cups tells of a sorrow that settles in and circles, as if reliving the loss protected you from the future. You have the right to hurt, but you aren’t condemned to live inside this sadness. A first step, even a tiny one, can reopen the path to the present. Forgive yourself for what you think you failed; you did with what you knew.

A question to sit with

What could you honor about this loss before turning back toward what remains?

Frequently asked questions about Five of Cups

What does Five of Cups mean upright?
The Five of Cups is spilled cups we weep over, our back turned to the ones still standing. A loss has gripped your heart, and it’s right to let it exist, without rushing it. Grief has its place; it doesn’t ask to be erased, only to be heard. When you’re ready, turn gently around, there’s still life behind you.
What does Five of Cups mean reversed?
Reversed, the Five of Cups tells of a sorrow that settles in and circles, as if reliving the loss protected you from the future. You have the right to hurt, but you aren’t condemned to live inside this sadness. A first step, even a tiny one, can reopen the path to the present. Forgive yourself for what you think you failed; you did with what you knew.

Sources

  • Arthur Edward Waite, The Pictorial Key to the Tarot, William Rider & Son, 1911.
  • Rachel Pollack, Seventy-Eight Degrees of Wisdom, Weiser Books, 1980.